When we spend most of our day taking care of others, it can be a challenge to prioritize caring for ourselves. But doing so is vital if we want to be emotionally strong and healthy in our personal and professional lives. Use this information to honestly assess areas where you could improve.
Review your beliefs and attitudes regarding your personal and professional self.
- Do you feel like your needs are secondary to those of others? Does it seem selfish to take care of yourself?
- Do you feel like you always fall short and can’t seem to make a difference?
- Do you often feel like poor outcomes are your fault?
- Do you believe if you work harder, you can be a better caring professional?
- Do you believe that stress is just part of the job and that you should be able to handle it?
- Does it seem like everything will fall apart if you’re not on the job?
- Do you avoid taking vacations because you feel you need to be at work?
- Do you think it’s OK to set limits with coworkers? Or do you take on coworkers’ concerns?
- Does self-care – eating right, exercising and finding ways to relax – not seem like a priority right now?
- Do you have a hard time acknowledging and letting go of things at work you can’t control?
- Can you identify some resilience skills you have?
- Do you have people you can and do turn to when you feel stressed or need to talk?
- Do you know of someone you can go to in your company if you have concerns or feel stressed?
- Do you know how the Employee Assistance Program (EAP) can help? If not, do you know where to find out?
Consider which areas need your attention.
- Maintain healthy emotional boundaries with care-recipients
- Maintain reasonable belief systems (I don’t have to be perfect. It’s okay to take care of myself.)
- Develop realistic expectations; distinguish between what I can and cannot control
- Actively seek to balance work and personal life
- Make self-care activities a priority and protect that time as much as possible
- Reconnect with my inner spirit and creative self
- Practice stress-reduction techniques
- Build or maintain a social support system
Keep these self-care strategies in mind as you consider and implement changes.
- Take care of your physical and emotional needs:
- Get enough sleep to wake up feeling well-rested.
- Choose physical activities you enjoy in order to stay motivated.
- Don’t let eating right be an afterthought. Stock healthy foods. Eat regular meals.
- Be sure to use your vacation time and personal time off. Do things you enjoy.
- Build time into your schedule for creative activities, hobbies and special interests.
- Practice techniques such as deep breathing, progressive relaxation, and guided imagery to reduce stress.
- Accept that there are things you can’t control. Change what you can and let go of the rest.
- Look at modifying issues in your personal life that might add to your stress at work.
- Tap into your support groups. Talk out your concerns with your partner, family or friends.
- Re-evaluate your career goals and job satisfaction. If you are tired, overwhelmed and unhappy with your job on a daily basis, it may be time for a change.
Know your Employee Assistance Program (EAP) benefits
This material is provided by Cigna for informational/educational purposes only. It is not intended as medical/clinical advice. Only a health care professional can make a diagnosis or recommend a treatment plan. For more information about your behavioral health coverage, you can call the customer service or the behavioral health telephone number listed on your health care identification card.